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POSTED MAY 19, 2005   


Men of Letters

Every year lots of golf history oozes at the Byron Nelson tour stop in the Dallas-Fort Worth area. The tournament namesake and beloved golfing icon basks humbly in his annual week in the sun, a 93-year-old living memento of the game’s golden era. His legacy is ensured by his 18-win season (a record 11 straight) in 1945, further nurtured by his patronly pen and his penchant to console, encourage, and congratulate countless pros who followed his path. Each week Nelson drops a note of congratulations to the PGA Tour’s latest champion, cementing an involvement in the modern game he helped create and a game he walked away from in his prime so he could just go home to Texas. Tiger Woods has a stack of those handwritten notes and this week is sure to add one more in the wake of missing the cut after 142 weekends of tour golf competition. That record had stood for fifty years at 113 before Woods swooshed by the guy who is going to be writing him his next letter.

Nelson, who learned the game out of the same caddie shack as Ben Hogan as a youth in Texas, quit the tour at 34 years of age.

He beat Hogan like a drum in those days. Nelson could have played into the sixties, the era of Palmer and Nicklaus. That he walked away so early deprived baby-boomers a glimpse of one of the all-time greats.

So we with interest rely on stories and letters.

Fortunately for me there resides in Banner Elk a story-teller of the highest order to provide a first hand account of the young Byron Nelson. Eighty-five year-old Ray Stanczak is first and foremost a sportsman. At his recent induction in the sports hall of fame in Paterson, New Jersey, he was remembered as the “greatest running back ever to come out of Central High School.”

One retrospective account rang of Grantland Rice and went “...close your eyes and return to the memories of a flash exploding from the line of scrimmage...leaving the secondary flat-footed and bewildered, and almost like the wind running with graceful, gazelle-like strides to the score. There will never be another “Wings.”

From 1937 through 1939 “Wings” earned all-state honors in football and baseball where his career batting average was .571.

He had scholarship offers from 40 college programs before a crippling knee injury ended his football days while playing for General Neyland at Tennessee.

A born athlete, he would turn to golf, an interest piqued by a boy’s fascination with a young golf pro from Texas. George Jacobus, the head pro at Ridgewood Country Club where a younger Stanczak earned money caddying, had brought Byron Nelson up from Florida with standing orders to practice everyday. The word in the shed was Nelson was the real deal. It was 1935 when a fifteen-year old Stanczak and two friends hitch hiked all night from Paterson to Monmouth Country Club in Eatontown to watch Nelson compete in the New Jersey Open.

“We slept on the grass,” Wings remembered. “We had maybe 50 cents between us.”

They watched Nelson’s every shot during the 36-hole final, close enough to hear the dialogue between player and caddie. After Nelson’s closest rival hit to fifteen feet at the day’s pivotal hole, Nelson twanged, “give me mah spade” and fired his six-iron shot to four feet. That birdie helped seal the win.

Nelson earned a $400 winner’s check and $40 from the pro-am a day earlier. As the presenters milled about in their black ties a polite yet anxious champion asked “could you just give me the money. I have to get back home to my wife.”

“Boy, the eyebrows went up,” Stanczak remembered, “but he was so nice they just shrugged and gave him his money.”

Ray Stanczak at the golf course in 1993.


The tournament over, the boys were faced with the long trek back to Paterson. “Ask him Ray,” his friends urged him. “Ask him for a ride home.”

Shyly Stanczak tugged on Nelson’s sleeve and the champion said jump in the car.

“We were hungry and busted,” he remembered. “On the way home he bought us each a hot dog and an ear of corn. I’ll never forget it.”

Ten years later, while playing football for Tennessee, Stanczak watched Nelson win one of his record 18 tour victories at the 1945 Knoxville Open. He wanted to thank Nelson personally for his kindness a decade earlier but couldn’t get through the admiring throng.

He tabled the notion for another day—another someday.

Done with football, Stanczak turned his attentions to his golf game. In 1950 he won the Paterson city championship before winning three successive club championships. He turned pro as a zero handicap and spread the gospel of golf as an instructor and raconteur, speaking to countless Rotary, Kiwanis and other civic organizations. When a celebrity showed up for golf at clubs in the area, Stanczak was often called on to play. He frequently rounded out foursomes with sports figures like Rocky Marciano, Jimmy Demarit, Sam Snead, Jimmy Turnesa and Davie Marr.

He taught the game to the blind and all in all probably gave more lessons over the years than any handful of club professionals combined.

But always his favorite golfing memory was of that ride home with Nelson.

Forty-eight years after that hot dog and ear of corn satiated three boys from Paterson, Stanczak wrote Byron Nelson from the pro shop at Sugar Mountain where he was the club professional. It was 1993 and the old pro had included a picture of his 7-year-old grandson Chris with the belated thank you note he had so long intended to write.

Good thing for the old pro that Nelson didn’t take as long to respond. Golf’s man of letters replied promptly.

6/23/93
Dear Ray
Glad to get your nice letter. The New Jersey Open was the first tournament I ever won as a pro. Glad you saw it.
Your grandson certainly has a good looking swing. I know it was good because of the excellent follow through. Keep it up Chris and you’ll win a big pro golf tournament someday.
Good luck,
Byron Nelson

It’s a memento Stanczak and his grandson can cherish. Just like Tiger.

See you on the tee.


 

 

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