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Community Surrounding Hicks Family With
Labor Of Love
Kick-Off For Room Addition Is October
16
By Sherrie Norris
The High Country community is always ready to lend a hand
in times of need weve seen it happen time
after time, and now is no exception.
According to Connie Regan-Blake, one of the areas
most noted storytellers, and Barry Nealy, Director of
Missions at Three Forks Baptist Association in Boone,
the family of the late Ray Hicks needs help, and its
time for us all to step up to the plate.
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Leonard Hicks and a family friend
visit with brother, Ted, and mother, Rosa, on the
front porch of the family home. Photo courtesy
of Connie Reagan-Blake
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Ray Hicks received world-wide recognition for decades
of storytelling, but he and his family never benefited
financially. Since Rays death last year, the Hicks
family has had a difficult time, in addition to the grief
of losing their beloved husband and father. For
his widow, Rosa, and son, Ted, this year has been a time
of change and they need our help, Connie shares.
During the last months of Rays life, Ted began
to have serious health problems. Two weeks after Ray passed
away, Ted was hospitalized due to complications with diabetes,
including a hurt foot that would not heal. Rays
widow, Rosa, has been diagnosed with leukemia and heart
disease.
Ted is now on dialysis and his overall health has rapidly
declined. He is taken into Boone by volunteers three times
a week, for four hours of dialysis each time. His name
has recently been added to the waiting list for a kidney
transplant. Folks who know them best say they cannot endure
another winter with only wood heat, carrying water from
the spring and using an outhouse. Rosa, who is also
in poor health, is now caring for Ted, who is no longer
able to help her with the chores. The other Hicks children
who live in Tennessee visit as often as they can; they
did a lot during the summer to tend the garden and continue
to help where and how they can.
Those who never had the pleasure of visiting in the Hicks
residence on Old Mountain Road above Matney, may not realize
that the family has never had the basic conveniences that
most of us take for granted. They have no running
water, no indoor plumbing, no washer and dryer and only
wood heat in winter. With Rosa and Teds health
problems, the entire Hicks family and their friends agree
that it is necessary to add on a room with those conveniences
. . . and Rosa says Im ready!
With the help of the generosity of The National Storytellers
and Three Forks Baptist Association, the goal at hand
is to build an additional room for Rosa and Ted with
good insulation, indoor plumbing and oil heat. Barry
Nealy states, We hope to complete construction before
winter sets in. Local contractor, Skip Greene, has
taken the reins on the building project, Nealy shares,
and will need workers skilled and unskilled support
groups and volunteers to help provide the construction,
electrical and plumbing work, meal preparation, financial
and prayer support, etc. The kick-off is planned for Saturday,
October 16, with construction planned to continue through
November, or however long it takes.
Connie Regan- Blake states, Rosa and Ted acknowledge
that this is an extremely hard and challenging time, but
they accept it in a matter-of-fact way, with an enormous
amount of grace and humor that continues to be awe inspiring
for me. If you went up to visit just for a day, you wouldnt
necessarily see the difficulties. Rather, you might just
see Ted outside on the same porch where Ray used to tell
stories.
Connie says during one of her recent visits, she joined
Rosa, and another son, Leonard, in the kitchen talking
and planning for the new room, and for a moment
we got quiet . . . then we heard Ted outside on the front
porch telling about Jack and the Giants to my friend,
Nancy. Rosa smiled and said, Listen to Ray out there.
Connie says there is a remarkable similarity between Teds
voice and Rays. And Ted is getting more comfortable
with telling . . . As his health improves, Im hoping
we can get him down off the mountain and onto the stage.
The telling seems to bring him as much healing and happiness
as it did for his dad. Ted has his own style, but you
can hear the same humor and generosity that we heard in
Rays stories.
In conclusion, Connie states, Your continued prayers
and thoughts have always been appreciated by the Hicks
family, and Rosa still says she can feel every single
one. Ray would have been 82 years old on August
29 . . . What a great way to celebrate him and his life
by making sure Rosa and Ted can live out their days with
a few more comforts.
Rosa asked me to thank the International Storytelling
Center for all their support and all the folks that are
(and will be) working on this project.
There is a new website dedicated to the memory of Ray
Hicks and to this building project, accessed at www.rayhicks.com
Donations to the Ray and Rosa Hicks Fund can be made directly
online, or contributions may be mailed to The Ray &
Rosa Hicks Fund, c/o International Storytelling Center,
116 West Main St, Jonesborough, TN 37659.
Rosa and Ted would also love to receive notes of encouragement,
which may be sent to their address at 218 Old Mountain
Road, Banner Elk, NC 28604.
For those interested in helping with the project kick-off
scheduled for Saturday, October 16, or at other times
convenient to personal schedules, please contact Skip
Greene at 963-0778.
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