After leaving the Gulf Coast portion
of the country behind following Hurricane Katrina,
Grace and Melanie Hall said that they feel right
at home in Boone. Photo by Mark Mitchell
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As Grace Hall prepares dinner,
Melanie has a little fun with the bubbles in the
sink. Photo by Mark Mitchell
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What A Long, Strange Trip Its Been
New Orleans Area Family Rides
Out Roller-Coaster Trip Called Life
By Mark Mitchell
Editors Note: The following is the third in a three-part
series which will tell the stories of three New Orleans
families displaced to the High Country following Hurricane
Katrina. With Thanksgiving approaching, these stories
will also delve into what they are still thankful for,
despite their hardships of the past 12 weeks.
Have you ever been asked, whats new in your
life? Often times this question is followed by the response
of not a lot. Chances are, Grace Hall would not pick those
three words to answer the question. Why? Because since
June of this year, Hall has gone through enough ups and
downs to satisfy a lifetime.
A separation from her husband, weekdays without her daughter,
traffic jams to escape Mother Nature, riding out Hurricane
Katrina in what she describes as a bomb shelter, losing
her place of residence and job, finding a job and realizing
a 20-year dream of living in Boone, fuel mishaps leading
to car problems, the search for a Magic Fairy, sadness,
despair and thankfulness have all been part of the adventure
Hall has called life since the summer of 2005.
Its certainly been a roller-coaster ride,
said a smiling Hall as she relaxed in her donated Boone
apartment. Its been one of the toughest times
in my life. The only time that was worst was when I lost
my mother.
To
tell the story of Halls life during this turbulent
period, it is necessary to go back in time to the aforementioned
month of June when she and her husband Mel separated.
The couple was living in Bogalusa, LA at the time, and
with the separation, Hall landed a job and moved to Slidell,
LA. Her husband, a teacher in Poplarville, MS, and her
daughter, Melanie, had previously commuted to Poplarville
where Melanie also went to school. Not wanting to take
her daughter out of a school system and friends she was
happy with, Hall made the decision to let Melanie continue
to attend school in Poplarville once the school year began.
After spending the remainder of the summer with Hall in
Slidell, Melanie began living with her father in his mothers
home, where he had previously moved. Only living 45 minutes
away from each other, Hall and Melanie spent each weekend
together.
While this period was indeed a trying time, just a few
weeks later, any semblance of normality went out the window
with the ferocious winds, rain and storm surge of Hurricane
Katrina.
It was actually Mel who called me and informed me
of the serious nature of the storm, Hall said. At
the time, I hadnt planned on leaving my home. Ive
heard other people from New Orleans say this before, but
its true, ever since childhood you hear what could
happen if a major storm hit the area, but it had never
happened and you almost become numb to the danger.
On Saturday, two days before Katrina struck, Hall packed
an overnight bag and went to stay at her aunts home
in Mandeville. While only 30 minutes away, Hall described
her aunts home as a bomb shelter, and would later
say that the home was so secure that the experience of
riding out Katrina was actually boring. After spending
Saturday night in Mandeville, Hall realized the devastation
Katrina could bring to her home in Slidell and returned
to load up as much of her belongings as possible. The
normal half-hour return trip to Mandeville, however, took
more than two hours as traffic, coupled with deteriating
weather conditions, took its toll.
While Hall rode out Katrina in one state, Melanie and
her father endured the hurricane back in Mississippi.
We could feel the walls shaking where I was,
Melanie remarked. A tree fell on the house, and
at one point while closing the front door, I got sucked
out a few feet. There was definitely more action with
my dad.
A few days later, mother and daughter were reunited in
Mandeville. With the secure home in Mandeville quickly
filling with other relatives and friends, the duo headed
to Shreveport, LA to stay with a cousin. It was there
where Hall gained access to the Internet, and there where
the first steps to a new life were taken.
I had always dreamed of living in the mountains
of North Carolina, specifically Boone, Hall said.
I had visited there for years, and just fell in
love with the place. Ive been a schoolteacher virtually
my whole life, and even my students in Louisiana knew
my dream. They would even come back to school to visit
and say :I cant believe you are still here.
As if by fate, the dream began to fall into place when
I friend helped Hall land a job teaching at Wilkes Central
High School. With a chance to finally make the big move,
but with no furnishings, home or resources to currently
utilize, Hall typed in Boone, NC Katrina Victims, only
to find fate once again ready to lend a helping hand.
Right away, I saw an offer I couldnt believe,
said Hall. A couple in Boone offered my daughter
and I the chance to live for free in Boone. All of a sudden,
I had a job and a place to live in the one town I most
wanted to call home.
It was then that Hall and her daughter returned to Mandeville
to get their affairs in order, followed by a subsequent
trip to Halls home in Slidell to survey the damage.
The worst problem I saw was looting, Hall
said. Some kitchen appliances and other items were
stolen. Mold was growing all over the walls, and I found
out they were going to tear down the complex except for
the foundation.
Just when all signs seemed to be pointing north to Boone,
two roadblocks made Hall question whether to chase her
dream.
Melanie had become depressed about leaving her father,
Hall said, and then my vehicle broke down because
I mistakenly put diesel in my tank. It just seemed like
a couple of signs were telling me not to go. I remember
writing the couple in Boone and telling them that I wish
I had a magic fairy to tell me what to do.
Nevertheless, the mother and daughter duo did eventually
hit the road for North Carolina, and now that they are
here, both say they have no plans to ever live in the
Gulf Coast portion of the country again.
We will probably never return, said Hall.
We both love it up here.
While both Grace and Melanie said they do not miss anything
about Bogalusa, a place Melanie referred to as Stinktown
because of towns paper mill, Grace did say she was
saddened by the fate New Orleans has suffered.
The culture and art of New Orleans is fantastic,
Hall remarked. Even though Im happy I got
to realize my dream, Im sad that New Orleans was
hurt.
As high as Halls praise was for New Orleans, it
went even higher for the couple who donated the apartment
where she and Melanie are currently living, Marie and
Virgil Freeman.
They have been angels, Hall gushed. They
have helped us in even more ways than the apartment. They
furnished the apartment, helped with information, and
even put a $100 bill in a drawer for emergencies. I am
so thankful for them.
As the interview reached its final moments, Hall said
that despite the trials and tribulations of the past few
months, she had many things to be thankful for this Thanksgiving.
I have a long list, Hall said as she laughed.
The Freemans, Melanie, the nice neighbors Ive
met, the great teachers Ive met at my new school,
the wonderful generosity so many people have shown me,
and of course, the chance to finally realize the dream
of living in Boone.
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